I’ve made a lot of lists in my day and I use them pretty much every day. I even have lists about my “master” lists so when I can figure out a way to keep my life together without requiring a list I’ll be sure to let you know.
I have made lists about the top “fifty things I want to do & see before I die” and I have a list of “50 things I want to accomplish” but I have never made a list of things I like about myself, let alone 50 of them!
I think it’s time I did.
We are so quick to be hard on ourselves and point out the things we want to change in ourselves but what if we were empowered enough to really appreciate ourselves? What if Moms everywhere began making a list like this?
Making a list of “things I like” first brought up my Ego. I thought, wow am I conceited to list all this? It this OK? What will people think?
Then I felt silly…..
Can you imagine that I almost felt as though I had to ask permission to be AMAZING in my OWN skin?
But the more I pressed on, the more I felt genuinely happy about acknowledging the aspects of myself that I often overlook.
We are in a time right now where female empowerment is beginning to take on a different tone.
It is not our mother’s fight to be equal any longer. The new awareness is not a fight at all, but a stepping into our own power and authenticity.
I feel women everywhere are beginning to ask themselves what they REALLY want?
In order for women to step into their power, the power that comes from embracing our true feminine essence, women must first face why we have chosen to believe messages of being UNWORTHY and NOT ENOUGH.
I created a list of what I like about myself because I know that my future depends, not on others, but what I FEEL within myself, is possible for my life.
When a woman feels she is not enough, it is pretty hard to write a list of things she likes about herself, isn’t it?
Can you see where I am going with this?
Create a list for yourself. Create this list because you no longer choose to accept that you are NOT ENOUGH or UNWORTHY.
So, in creating this list – you declare and accept where you are at with your Self.
It’s OK – if you don’t feel amazing or find it hard to write the list.
But you choose to do what you can and OWN your own right to feel worthy TO YOURSELF
I invite you to embrace all the
amazing
funny
cute
daring
gritty
sensuous
powerful
childlike
warrior
healing
nurturing
wild
vulnerable ….things about yourself.
Here is my temporary list, because I will be adding to it as I evolve as a woman…
Fifty Things I Like: (About Myself)
- That I am healthy
- I like the taste of healthy food. Sprouts anyone?
- I am open minded
- Although I try to follow simple truths
- I am an independent thinker, culture rarely influences me
- I believe in peace
- I am more tolerant with age
- I’m excited, most of the time
- and I feel deeply
- I am empathetic
- I have penetrating eyes
- My eyes never lie
- I cannot fake my feelings either
- I take risks!
- I’m a supportive wife
- and a great mom, even when I’m stretched to my limit.
- I enjoy the seasons,
- I feel connected with people, earth and spirit
- I’m not a quitter…EVER!
- I love learning
- I like my wrinkles
- I’m aware of my faults, but finally learned to be kind to myself
- I love to photograph my daughter
- I like my body, even the post pregnancy snuggle zones
- That I believe people can be & do anything
- I am strong
- I’m learning to laugh at myself
- I say it like it is
- But now I say it with love, most of the time
- I love NFL season – one two three hut!
- I am a goof
- That languages come easily to me
- I cry over stray animals and animal cruelty
- And over commercials about family and children
- I listen to my intuitiion
- I notice subtleties in behavior and I am learning not to take things personally
- I remember who gave us every gift when my daughter was born
- I enjoy wine, even though it doesn’t like me
- I am passionate
- I’m a supportive friend
- I sing with the windows open
- I have a green thumb
- I’m a possibility thinker
- I’m a regular purger of belongings. We pack light.
- I am following my own path, even if it makes others uncomfortable
- I enjoy yoga
- And coffee even though it conflicts with my meditation
- I can sit in another’s pain
- I love life and I love the journey
- and That I know how it feels to hate life too
- I like that this list will someday reach 500…
This was fun…and satisfying and the more things you think of, the more keep coming…I’m still thinking of things I like. Isn’t that the way it should be?!!
Now it’s your turn! Go and make your list of 50+.
Bloggers, be sure to leave a link in the comments so we can visit your “list of things you like about yourself!”






















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im giving,i hate to hurt peoples feelings,im a good mom
I am spiritual and passionate about life and dedicated to those I love (family, students, coworkers, friends).
I am a good mom.
I don’t lie.
I am a good daughter.
wow.
love the post.
LOVE the comments!
what i find amazing about the comments is how many of you women recognise yourselves as good mothers. this is really nice to see.
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Three things i love about my self are: i’m spiritual God comes first.I have great personality an my smile changes the atmosphere
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